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Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Welcome@Meinvan I am also in BC.  I live on Vancouver Island (Duncan).  The waiting for an assessment and having a treatment plan put in place is hard.  Once you have a treatment plan the Teal sisters will definitely have some tips for you.  There is a ton of information on this site if you click on the categories tab at the top.  Prior to your appointment write down any questions you have, take someone with you to your appointment as sometimes we are overwhelmed with information and emotions.  Stay positive.  

Original Message:
Sent: 03-15-2025 22:08
From: Meinvan
Subject: New here

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Welcome@Meinvan I am also in BC.  I live on Vancouver Island (Duncan).  The waiting for an assessment and having a treatment plan put in place is hard.  Once you have a treatment plan the Teal sisters will definitely have some tips for you.  There is a ton of information on this site if you click on the categories tab at the top.  Prior to your appointment write down any questions you have, take someone with you to your appointment as sometimes we are overwhelmed with information and emotions.  Stay positive.  

Original Message:
Sent: 03-15-2025 22:08
From: Meinvan
Subject: New here

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Welcome@Meinvan I am also in BC.  I live on Vancouver Island (Duncan).  The waiting for an assessment and having a treatment plan put in place is hard.  Once you have a treatment plan the Teal sisters will definitely have some tips for you.  There is a ton of information on this site if you click on the categories tab at the top.  Prior to your appointment write down any questions you have, take someone with you to your appointment as sometimes we are overwhelmed with information and emotions.  Stay positive.  

Original Message:
Sent: 03-15-2025 22:08
From: Meinvan
Subject: New here

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Welcome@Meinvan I am also in BC.  I live on Vancouver Island (Duncan).  The waiting for an assessment and having a treatment plan put in place is hard.  Once you have a treatment plan the Teal sisters will definitely have some tips for you.  There is a ton of information on this site if you click on the categories tab at the top.  Prior to your appointment write down any questions you have, take someone with you to your appointment as sometimes we are overwhelmed with information and emotions.  Stay positive.  

Original Message:
Sent: 03-15-2025 22:08
From: Meinvan
Subject: New here

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Welcome@Meinvan I am also in BC.  I live on Vancouver Island (Duncan).  The waiting for an assessment and having a treatment plan put in place is hard.  Once you have a treatment plan the Teal sisters will definitely have some tips for you.  There is a ton of information on this site if you click on the categories tab at the top.  Prior to your appointment write down any questions you have, take someone with you to your appointment as sometimes we are overwhelmed with information and emotions.  Stay positive.  

Original Message:
Sent: 03-15-2025 22:08
From: Meinvan
Subject: New here

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Oh and Happy Birthday @Meinvan

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Oh and Happy Birthday @Meinvan

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Welcome, @Meinvan@Meinvan!

My experience was very similar to yours.  I was 49 when I was diagnosed.  My symptoms were subtle and I, too, figured I was in perimenopause.  The cancer diagnosis was a shock, as I'm sure it often is.  March 29 will mark two years since my diagnosis. 

Are you able to get your ascites drained? I was drained in the ER the day that I was diagnosed, but when the fluid built up again, I couldn't find anyone in the ER who would drain me, and the radiologist who did my biopsy said that there wasn't enough fluid to be drained.  I eventually found a doctor in the ER who wasn't comfortable doing the draining ("tap") himself, but he made arrangements for a radiologist to do.  Good thing, as I had 4 liters drained out of me!

I could offer all kinds of advice, but for now, I'll recommend two things.  1) Be prepared for people who have no idea what you're going through tell you what to do.  The advice is well-intentioned, but usually annoying.

2) It's good to be positive, but also give yourself permission to have bad days.  It's okay not to be okay.  It's okay to feel what you're feeling.  You have permission to have meltdowns when needed.

I wish you all the best! I'm sending positive thoughts about your appointment on the 20th.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

@FrogProf

thanks for sharing, I am hoping when the clinic assesses they will tell me what the plan for the ascites is,I'm told the chemo should help and once the tumor shrinks so will the ascites and everything else.  Otherwise it will need to be drained at some point.  Of course I have bad days and that's ok but I have to keep pushing thru .

Original Message:
Sent: 03-16-2025 19:49
From: FrogProf
Subject: New here

Welcome, @Meinvan@Meinvan!

My experience was very similar to yours.  I was 49 when I was diagnosed.  My symptoms were subtle and I, too, figured I was in perimenopause.  The cancer diagnosis was a shock, as I'm sure it often is.  March 29 will mark two years since my diagnosis. 

Are you able to get your ascites drained? I was drained in the ER the day that I was diagnosed, but when the fluid built up again, I couldn't find anyone in the ER who would drain me, and the radiologist who did my biopsy said that there wasn't enough fluid to be drained.  I eventually found a doctor in the ER who wasn't comfortable doing the draining ("tap") himself, but he made arrangements for a radiologist to do.  Good thing, as I had 4 liters drained out of me!

I could offer all kinds of advice, but for now, I'll recommend two things.  1) Be prepared for people who have no idea what you're going through tell you what to do.  The advice is well-intentioned, but usually annoying.

2) It's good to be positive, but also give yourself permission to have bad days.  It's okay not to be okay.  It's okay to feel what you're feeling.  You have permission to have meltdowns when needed.

I wish you all the best! I'm sending positive thoughts about your appointment on the 20th.

Original Message:
Sent: 03-15-2025 22:08
From: Meinvan
Subject: New here

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

@Meinvan I hope things weren't too overwhelming at your appointment yesterday.  I agree with what's been said here - get the resource guide book from here - it's free and it's really nice to go through and read the sections you want to and highlight things.  I would also encourage you to register with Wellspring as they have many free supportive courses - in-person and online.  During one of my Meditative Art classes online - I was feeling angry about having a recurrence, so used that class to express those feelings and it was SO helpful!  Not sure if you're into art or meditation, but Wellspring has all kinds of classes and they have a Community page as well that you can start a "club" if you're looking for others in your area.  I would also encourage you to join some of the Teal Tea's online here at OCC.  It's nice to be in a group with others having similar experiences.

Original Message:
Sent: 03-17-2025 17:40
From: Meinvan
Subject: New here

@FrogProf

thanks for sharing, I am hoping when the clinic assesses they will tell me what the plan for the ascites is,I'm told the chemo should help and once the tumor shrinks so will the ascites and everything else.  Otherwise it will need to be drained at some point.  Of course I have bad days and that's ok but I have to keep pushing thru .

Original Message:
Sent: 03-16-2025 19:49
From: FrogProf
Subject: New here

Welcome, @Meinvan@Meinvan!

My experience was very similar to yours.  I was 49 when I was diagnosed.  My symptoms were subtle and I, too, figured I was in perimenopause.  The cancer diagnosis was a shock, as I'm sure it often is.  March 29 will mark two years since my diagnosis. 

Are you able to get your ascites drained? I was drained in the ER the day that I was diagnosed, but when the fluid built up again, I couldn't find anyone in the ER who would drain me, and the radiologist who did my biopsy said that there wasn't enough fluid to be drained.  I eventually found a doctor in the ER who wasn't comfortable doing the draining ("tap") himself, but he made arrangements for a radiologist to do.  Good thing, as I had 4 liters drained out of me!

I could offer all kinds of advice, but for now, I'll recommend two things.  1) Be prepared for people who have no idea what you're going through tell you what to do.  The advice is well-intentioned, but usually annoying.

2) It's good to be positive, but also give yourself permission to have bad days.  It's okay not to be okay.  It's okay to feel what you're feeling.  You have permission to have meltdowns when needed.

I wish you all the best! I'm sending positive thoughts about your appointment on the 20th.

Original Message:
Sent: 03-15-2025 22:08
From: Meinvan
Subject: New here

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Thank you all for your kind words and info.  Didn't learn much from my appt yet.  Doctor seems to think the primary source maybe coming from my uterus or endometrium and then grew this large ovarian mass.  She tried to do an endometrial biopsy in her office but wasn't able to so I am booked for Monday to have it done with sedation this time.  I was sent for an abd. Tap on Friday to check the cytology of my peritoneal fluid.  We thought they were going to drain the fluid to give me some relief from the ascites, but no such luck they only took 50cc.  She has put in everything as urgent so we will get results back in 1-2 days which is good, and then she said we will most likely start chemo first.  My hemoglobin is back down to 79 again so I'm pretty tired these says.  Might get some blood on Monday for biopsy if needed. I find I can barely walk  right now, my legs are so swollen and hurt like heck!  

@Meinvan I hope things weren't too overwhelming at your appointment yesterday.  I agree with what's been said here - get the resource guide book from here - it's free and it's really nice to go through and read the sections you want to and highlight things.  I would also encourage you to register with Wellspring as they have many free supportive courses - in-person and online.  During one of my Meditative Art classes online - I was feeling angry about having a recurrence, so used that class to express those feelings and it was SO helpful!  Not sure if you're into art or meditation, but Wellspring has all kinds of classes and they have a Community page as well that you can start a "club" if you're looking for others in your area.  I would also encourage you to join some of the Teal Tea's online here at OCC.  It's nice to be in a group with others having similar experiences.

Original Message:
Sent: 03-17-2025 17:40
From: Meinvan
Subject: New here

@FrogProf

thanks for sharing, I am hoping when the clinic assesses they will tell me what the plan for the ascites is,I'm told the chemo should help and once the tumor shrinks so will the ascites and everything else.  Otherwise it will need to be drained at some point.  Of course I have bad days and that's ok but I have to keep pushing thru .

Original Message:
Sent: 03-16-2025 19:49
From: FrogProf
Subject: New here

Welcome, @Meinvan@Meinvan!

My experience was very similar to yours.  I was 49 when I was diagnosed.  My symptoms were subtle and I, too, figured I was in perimenopause.  The cancer diagnosis was a shock, as I'm sure it often is.  March 29 will mark two years since my diagnosis. 

Are you able to get your ascites drained? I was drained in the ER the day that I was diagnosed, but when the fluid built up again, I couldn't find anyone in the ER who would drain me, and the radiologist who did my biopsy said that there wasn't enough fluid to be drained.  I eventually found a doctor in the ER who wasn't comfortable doing the draining ("tap") himself, but he made arrangements for a radiologist to do.  Good thing, as I had 4 liters drained out of me!

I could offer all kinds of advice, but for now, I'll recommend two things.  1) Be prepared for people who have no idea what you're going through tell you what to do.  The advice is well-intentioned, but usually annoying.

2) It's good to be positive, but also give yourself permission to have bad days.  It's okay not to be okay.  It's okay to feel what you're feeling.  You have permission to have meltdowns when needed.

I wish you all the best! I'm sending positive thoughts about your appointment on the 20th.

Original Message:
Sent: 03-15-2025 22:08
From: Meinvan
Subject: New here

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Welcome, @Meinvan@Meinvan!

My experience was very similar to yours.  I was 49 when I was diagnosed.  My symptoms were subtle and I, too, figured I was in perimenopause.  The cancer diagnosis was a shock, as I'm sure it often is.  March 29 will mark two years since my diagnosis. 

Are you able to get your ascites drained? I was drained in the ER the day that I was diagnosed, but when the fluid built up again, I couldn't find anyone in the ER who would drain me, and the radiologist who did my biopsy said that there wasn't enough fluid to be drained.  I eventually found a doctor in the ER who wasn't comfortable doing the draining ("tap") himself, but he made arrangements for a radiologist to do.  Good thing, as I had 4 liters drained out of me!

I could offer all kinds of advice, but for now, I'll recommend two things.  1) Be prepared for people who have no idea what you're going through tell you what to do.  The advice is well-intentioned, but usually annoying.

2) It's good to be positive, but also give yourself permission to have bad days.  It's okay not to be okay.  It's okay to feel what you're feeling.  You have permission to have meltdowns when needed.

I wish you all the best! I'm sending positive thoughts about your appointment on the 20th.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Change of plans yet again.  I did my MRI yesterday, This morning the gene oncologist called to tell me that my uterus is fine just fibroids, that cancer is still pointing to ovarian with peritoneal deposits, but of course without a positive biopsy the oncologist will not start chemo until we have an official diagnosis, stage,grade etc…So she gave us 2 options for next steps: 1) do IR guided biopsy again and hope to get ovarian cells. Or 2) go back to OR for a laparotomy to look around, do more biopsy's and drain the ascites. She said while in OR she will get pathology to look at samples before ending surgery so we will know if we have cancer cells in samples.

obviously I'm going with option 2.  She said she has never had anyone that has taken so long to diagnose.  This will be the 4th attempt at biopsy.  Surgery will be in April 11th, after this we should have an idea of what's next.  Chemo if we can confirm the type and surgery if she still can't determine the cancer.  My appt with Cancer agency was bumped till April 14th from the 7th I guess cause we don't have anything confirmed yet.

thanks for being here and supporting me thru this.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

@Meinvan I can't believe the journey you have been through. I am thankful you now have a plan forward however can only imagine how frustrating all of this has been. April 11th will feel like an eternity away and then it will be fast approaching and upon you. Stay tough and strong. You've managed this so far. You've got this!!!

Change of plans yet again.  I did my MRI yesterday, This morning the gene oncologist called to tell me that my uterus is fine just fibroids, that cancer is still pointing to ovarian with peritoneal deposits, but of course without a positive biopsy the oncologist will not start chemo until we have an official diagnosis, stage,grade etc…So she gave us 2 options for next steps: 1) do IR guided biopsy again and hope to get ovarian cells. Or 2) go back to OR for a laparotomy to look around, do more biopsy's and drain the ascites. She said while in OR she will get pathology to look at samples before ending surgery so we will know if we have cancer cells in samples.

obviously I'm going with option 2.  She said she has never had anyone that has taken so long to diagnose.  This will be the 4th attempt at biopsy.  Surgery will be in April 11th, after this we should have an idea of what's next.  Chemo if we can confirm the type and surgery if she still can't determine the cancer.  My appt with Cancer agency was bumped till April 14th from the 7th I guess cause we don't have anything confirmed yet.

thanks for being here and supporting me thru this.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

@Meinvan I can't believe the journey you have been through. I am thankful you now have a plan forward however can only imagine how frustrating all of this has been. April 11th will feel like an eternity away and then it will be fast approaching and upon you. Stay tough and strong. You've managed this so far. You've got this!!!

Change of plans yet again.  I did my MRI yesterday, This morning the gene oncologist called to tell me that my uterus is fine just fibroids, that cancer is still pointing to ovarian with peritoneal deposits, but of course without a positive biopsy the oncologist will not start chemo until we have an official diagnosis, stage,grade etc…So she gave us 2 options for next steps: 1) do IR guided biopsy again and hope to get ovarian cells. Or 2) go back to OR for a laparotomy to look around, do more biopsy's and drain the ascites. She said while in OR she will get pathology to look at samples before ending surgery so we will know if we have cancer cells in samples.

obviously I'm going with option 2.  She said she has never had anyone that has taken so long to diagnose.  This will be the 4th attempt at biopsy.  Surgery will be in April 11th, after this we should have an idea of what's next.  Chemo if we can confirm the type and surgery if she still can't determine the cancer.  My appt with Cancer agency was bumped till April 14th from the 7th I guess cause we don't have anything confirmed yet.

thanks for being here and supporting me thru this.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

@lbarr72 I love your comment that we are, "...obviously not statistics, as many sisters have proved them wrong!". You are absolutely correct considering the many survivors and warriors in this forum. Thank you for the reminder. My son's fiancee is a PhD student in molecular science and her field of study is Ovarian Cancer. She likes to remind me that the online statistics are not to be taken as the gospel. They are often comprised of information on a more 'global' basis and can be very misleading. I prefer instead to read the amazing stories of survival and endurance from our Teal Sisters. That is where the truth exists.

@Meinvan I can't believe the journey you have been through. I am thankful you now have a plan forward however can only imagine how frustrating all of this has been. April 11th will feel like an eternity away and then it will be fast approaching and upon you. Stay tough and strong. You've managed this so far. You've got this!!!

Change of plans yet again.  I did my MRI yesterday, This morning the gene oncologist called to tell me that my uterus is fine just fibroids, that cancer is still pointing to ovarian with peritoneal deposits, but of course without a positive biopsy the oncologist will not start chemo until we have an official diagnosis, stage,grade etc…So she gave us 2 options for next steps: 1) do IR guided biopsy again and hope to get ovarian cells. Or 2) go back to OR for a laparotomy to look around, do more biopsy's and drain the ascites. She said while in OR she will get pathology to look at samples before ending surgery so we will know if we have cancer cells in samples.

obviously I'm going with option 2.  She said she has never had anyone that has taken so long to diagnose.  This will be the 4th attempt at biopsy.  Surgery will be in April 11th, after this we should have an idea of what's next.  Chemo if we can confirm the type and surgery if she still can't determine the cancer.  My appt with Cancer agency was bumped till April 14th from the 7th I guess cause we don't have anything confirmed yet.

thanks for being here and supporting me thru this.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

"Not statistics". My cousin was diagnosed with stage 4 HGSC 9 years ago.  After chemo and surgery she was part of a trial for Olaparib and has now been cancer free for 8 years!

@lbarr72 I love your comment that we are, "...obviously not statistics, as many sisters have proved them wrong!". You are absolutely correct considering the many survivors and warriors in this forum. Thank you for the reminder. My son's fiancee is a PhD student in molecular science and her field of study is Ovarian Cancer. She likes to remind me that the online statistics are not to be taken as the gospel. They are often comprised of information on a more 'global' basis and can be very misleading. I prefer instead to read the amazing stories of survival and endurance from our Teal Sisters. That is where the truth exists.

@Meinvan I can't believe the journey you have been through. I am thankful you now have a plan forward however can only imagine how frustrating all of this has been. April 11th will feel like an eternity away and then it will be fast approaching and upon you. Stay tough and strong. You've managed this so far. You've got this!!!

Change of plans yet again.  I did my MRI yesterday, This morning the gene oncologist called to tell me that my uterus is fine just fibroids, that cancer is still pointing to ovarian with peritoneal deposits, but of course without a positive biopsy the oncologist will not start chemo until we have an official diagnosis, stage,grade etc…So she gave us 2 options for next steps: 1) do IR guided biopsy again and hope to get ovarian cells. Or 2) go back to OR for a laparotomy to look around, do more biopsy's and drain the ascites. She said while in OR she will get pathology to look at samples before ending surgery so we will know if we have cancer cells in samples.

obviously I'm going with option 2.  She said she has never had anyone that has taken so long to diagnose.  This will be the 4th attempt at biopsy.  Surgery will be in April 11th, after this we should have an idea of what's next.  Chemo if we can confirm the type and surgery if she still can't determine the cancer.  My appt with Cancer agency was bumped till April 14th from the 7th I guess cause we don't have anything confirmed yet.

thanks for being here and supporting me thru this.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

💗

"Not statistics". My cousin was diagnosed with stage 4 HGSC 9 years ago.  After chemo and surgery she was part of a trial for Olaparib and has now been cancer free for 8 years!

@lbarr72 I love your comment that we are, "...obviously not statistics, as many sisters have proved them wrong!". You are absolutely correct considering the many survivors and warriors in this forum. Thank you for the reminder. My son's fiancee is a PhD student in molecular science and her field of study is Ovarian Cancer. She likes to remind me that the online statistics are not to be taken as the gospel. They are often comprised of information on a more 'global' basis and can be very misleading. I prefer instead to read the amazing stories of survival and endurance from our Teal Sisters. That is where the truth exists.

@Meinvan I can't believe the journey you have been through. I am thankful you now have a plan forward however can only imagine how frustrating all of this has been. April 11th will feel like an eternity away and then it will be fast approaching and upon you. Stay tough and strong. You've managed this so far. You've got this!!!

Change of plans yet again.  I did my MRI yesterday, This morning the gene oncologist called to tell me that my uterus is fine just fibroids, that cancer is still pointing to ovarian with peritoneal deposits, but of course without a positive biopsy the oncologist will not start chemo until we have an official diagnosis, stage,grade etc…So she gave us 2 options for next steps: 1) do IR guided biopsy again and hope to get ovarian cells. Or 2) go back to OR for a laparotomy to look around, do more biopsy's and drain the ascites. She said while in OR she will get pathology to look at samples before ending surgery so we will know if we have cancer cells in samples.

obviously I'm going with option 2.  She said she has never had anyone that has taken so long to diagnose.  This will be the 4th attempt at biopsy.  Surgery will be in April 11th, after this we should have an idea of what's next.  Chemo if we can confirm the type and surgery if she still can't determine the cancer.  My appt with Cancer agency was bumped till April 14th from the 7th I guess cause we don't have anything confirmed yet.

thanks for being here and supporting me thru this.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Morning ladies!  Well finally yesterday went and had my laparoscopy done, dr. Was able to remove 9 litres of ascites fluid off of me.  And was finally able to get the positive pathology we have been looking for after the 4th biopsy, so she was able to confirm the ovarian cancer, told my hubby it was the most common type to have but he didn't know any more then that.  After that finding she was able to speak with the cancer clinic where I will be going and they rescheduled my appt for initial consult Tuesday instead of after the Easter weekend, so moving forward finally!  I'm guessing an ivad will be next?  Home recovering now, a little painful to move and bend still today hoping that gets better by tomorrow,  peeing burns a little hoping that will be gone soon too.  Dr gave me 2 weeks on apixaban as well to prevent dvt's due to the high platelet counts.  Now onto Tuesday and next steps for starting chemo!  I'll keep you posted.  Thanks for being here and reading my journey.

💗

"Not statistics". My cousin was diagnosed with stage 4 HGSC 9 years ago.  After chemo and surgery she was part of a trial for Olaparib and has now been cancer free for 8 years!

@lbarr72 I love your comment that we are, "...obviously not statistics, as many sisters have proved them wrong!". You are absolutely correct considering the many survivors and warriors in this forum. Thank you for the reminder. My son's fiancee is a PhD student in molecular science and her field of study is Ovarian Cancer. She likes to remind me that the online statistics are not to be taken as the gospel. They are often comprised of information on a more 'global' basis and can be very misleading. I prefer instead to read the amazing stories of survival and endurance from our Teal Sisters. That is where the truth exists.

@Meinvan I can't believe the journey you have been through. I am thankful you now have a plan forward however can only imagine how frustrating all of this has been. April 11th will feel like an eternity away and then it will be fast approaching and upon you. Stay tough and strong. You've managed this so far. You've got this!!!

Change of plans yet again.  I did my MRI yesterday, This morning the gene oncologist called to tell me that my uterus is fine just fibroids, that cancer is still pointing to ovarian with peritoneal deposits, but of course without a positive biopsy the oncologist will not start chemo until we have an official diagnosis, stage,grade etc…So she gave us 2 options for next steps: 1) do IR guided biopsy again and hope to get ovarian cells. Or 2) go back to OR for a laparotomy to look around, do more biopsy's and drain the ascites. She said while in OR she will get pathology to look at samples before ending surgery so we will know if we have cancer cells in samples.

obviously I'm going with option 2.  She said she has never had anyone that has taken so long to diagnose.  This will be the 4th attempt at biopsy.  Surgery will be in April 11th, after this we should have an idea of what's next.  Chemo if we can confirm the type and surgery if she still can't determine the cancer.  My appt with Cancer agency was bumped till April 14th from the 7th I guess cause we don't have anything confirmed yet.

thanks for being here and supporting me thru this.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Hello @Meinvan

Glad you finally have a diagnosis and fluid removal!  So your consult is tomorrow - April 15?  Sending you good, positive vibes for your appointment!

Morning ladies!  Well finally yesterday went and had my laparoscopy done, dr. Was able to remove 9 litres of ascites fluid off of me.  And was finally able to get the positive pathology we have been looking for after the 4th biopsy, so she was able to confirm the ovarian cancer, told my hubby it was the most common type to have but he didn't know any more then that.  After that finding she was able to speak with the cancer clinic where I will be going and they rescheduled my appt for initial consult Tuesday instead of after the Easter weekend, so moving forward finally!  I'm guessing an ivad will be next?  Home recovering now, a little painful to move and bend still today hoping that gets better by tomorrow,  peeing burns a little hoping that will be gone soon too.  Dr gave me 2 weeks on apixaban as well to prevent dvt's due to the high platelet counts.  Now onto Tuesday and next steps for starting chemo!  I'll keep you posted.  Thanks for being here and reading my journey.

💗

"Not statistics". My cousin was diagnosed with stage 4 HGSC 9 years ago.  After chemo and surgery she was part of a trial for Olaparib and has now been cancer free for 8 years!

@lbarr72 I love your comment that we are, "...obviously not statistics, as many sisters have proved them wrong!". You are absolutely correct considering the many survivors and warriors in this forum. Thank you for the reminder. My son's fiancee is a PhD student in molecular science and her field of study is Ovarian Cancer. She likes to remind me that the online statistics are not to be taken as the gospel. They are often comprised of information on a more 'global' basis and can be very misleading. I prefer instead to read the amazing stories of survival and endurance from our Teal Sisters. That is where the truth exists.

@Meinvan I can't believe the journey you have been through. I am thankful you now have a plan forward however can only imagine how frustrating all of this has been. April 11th will feel like an eternity away and then it will be fast approaching and upon you. Stay tough and strong. You've managed this so far. You've got this!!!

Change of plans yet again.  I did my MRI yesterday, This morning the gene oncologist called to tell me that my uterus is fine just fibroids, that cancer is still pointing to ovarian with peritoneal deposits, but of course without a positive biopsy the oncologist will not start chemo until we have an official diagnosis, stage,grade etc…So she gave us 2 options for next steps: 1) do IR guided biopsy again and hope to get ovarian cells. Or 2) go back to OR for a laparotomy to look around, do more biopsy's and drain the ascites. She said while in OR she will get pathology to look at samples before ending surgery so we will know if we have cancer cells in samples.

obviously I'm going with option 2.  She said she has never had anyone that has taken so long to diagnose.  This will be the 4th attempt at biopsy.  Surgery will be in April 11th, after this we should have an idea of what's next.  Chemo if we can confirm the type and surgery if she still can't determine the cancer.  My appt with Cancer agency was bumped till April 14th from the 7th I guess cause we don't have anything confirmed yet.

thanks for being here and supporting me thru this.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Morning ladies!  Well finally yesterday went and had my laparoscopy done, dr. Was able to remove 9 litres of ascites fluid off of me.  And was finally able to get the positive pathology we have been looking for after the 4th biopsy, so she was able to confirm the ovarian cancer, told my hubby it was the most common type to have but he didn't know any more then that.  After that finding she was able to speak with the cancer clinic where I will be going and they rescheduled my appt for initial consult Tuesday instead of after the Easter weekend, so moving forward finally!  I'm guessing an ivad will be next?  Home recovering now, a little painful to move and bend still today hoping that gets better by tomorrow,  peeing burns a little hoping that will be gone soon too.  Dr gave me 2 weeks on apixaban as well to prevent dvt's due to the high platelet counts.  Now onto Tuesday and next steps for starting chemo!  I'll keep you posted.  Thanks for being here and reading my journey.

💗

"Not statistics". My cousin was diagnosed with stage 4 HGSC 9 years ago.  After chemo and surgery she was part of a trial for Olaparib and has now been cancer free for 8 years!

@lbarr72 I love your comment that we are, "...obviously not statistics, as many sisters have proved them wrong!". You are absolutely correct considering the many survivors and warriors in this forum. Thank you for the reminder. My son's fiancee is a PhD student in molecular science and her field of study is Ovarian Cancer. She likes to remind me that the online statistics are not to be taken as the gospel. They are often comprised of information on a more 'global' basis and can be very misleading. I prefer instead to read the amazing stories of survival and endurance from our Teal Sisters. That is where the truth exists.

@Meinvan I can't believe the journey you have been through. I am thankful you now have a plan forward however can only imagine how frustrating all of this has been. April 11th will feel like an eternity away and then it will be fast approaching and upon you. Stay tough and strong. You've managed this so far. You've got this!!!

Change of plans yet again.  I did my MRI yesterday, This morning the gene oncologist called to tell me that my uterus is fine just fibroids, that cancer is still pointing to ovarian with peritoneal deposits, but of course without a positive biopsy the oncologist will not start chemo until we have an official diagnosis, stage,grade etc…So she gave us 2 options for next steps: 1) do IR guided biopsy again and hope to get ovarian cells. Or 2) go back to OR for a laparotomy to look around, do more biopsy's and drain the ascites. She said while in OR she will get pathology to look at samples before ending surgery so we will know if we have cancer cells in samples.

obviously I'm going with option 2.  She said she has never had anyone that has taken so long to diagnose.  This will be the 4th attempt at biopsy.  Surgery will be in April 11th, after this we should have an idea of what's next.  Chemo if we can confirm the type and surgery if she still can't determine the cancer.  My appt with Cancer agency was bumped till April 14th from the 7th I guess cause we don't have anything confirmed yet.

thanks for being here and supporting me thru this.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Hi @Meinvan. I'm so glad you finally have some clarity although I honestly hate to welcome you to the club. I can say however that the Teal Sisters here are amazing for support, advice and strength. I can't imagine 9L of liquid! Glad they could reduce that significantly. If you have the most common OV cancer it is likely High Grade Serous however they will give you all that information today at your appointment and should hopefully be able to tell you stage as well. I'm thrilled they got you in for today. The waiting is the worst part. Having a plan is so helpful and I'm sure you will have a path forward after your meeting today. I hope your post procedure recovery is improving each day. Please keep us posted on the next steps in your journey. Sending you positive thoughts.

Morning ladies!  Well finally yesterday went and had my laparoscopy done, dr. Was able to remove 9 litres of ascites fluid off of me.  And was finally able to get the positive pathology we have been looking for after the 4th biopsy, so she was able to confirm the ovarian cancer, told my hubby it was the most common type to have but he didn't know any more then that.  After that finding she was able to speak with the cancer clinic where I will be going and they rescheduled my appt for initial consult Tuesday instead of after the Easter weekend, so moving forward finally!  I'm guessing an ivad will be next?  Home recovering now, a little painful to move and bend still today hoping that gets better by tomorrow,  peeing burns a little hoping that will be gone soon too.  Dr gave me 2 weeks on apixaban as well to prevent dvt's due to the high platelet counts.  Now onto Tuesday and next steps for starting chemo!  I'll keep you posted.  Thanks for being here and reading my journey.

💗

"Not statistics". My cousin was diagnosed with stage 4 HGSC 9 years ago.  After chemo and surgery she was part of a trial for Olaparib and has now been cancer free for 8 years!

@lbarr72 I love your comment that we are, "...obviously not statistics, as many sisters have proved them wrong!". You are absolutely correct considering the many survivors and warriors in this forum. Thank you for the reminder. My son's fiancee is a PhD student in molecular science and her field of study is Ovarian Cancer. She likes to remind me that the online statistics are not to be taken as the gospel. They are often comprised of information on a more 'global' basis and can be very misleading. I prefer instead to read the amazing stories of survival and endurance from our Teal Sisters. That is where the truth exists.

@Meinvan I can't believe the journey you have been through. I am thankful you now have a plan forward however can only imagine how frustrating all of this has been. April 11th will feel like an eternity away and then it will be fast approaching and upon you. Stay tough and strong. You've managed this so far. You've got this!!!

Change of plans yet again.  I did my MRI yesterday, This morning the gene oncologist called to tell me that my uterus is fine just fibroids, that cancer is still pointing to ovarian with peritoneal deposits, but of course without a positive biopsy the oncologist will not start chemo until we have an official diagnosis, stage,grade etc…So she gave us 2 options for next steps: 1) do IR guided biopsy again and hope to get ovarian cells. Or 2) go back to OR for a laparotomy to look around, do more biopsy's and drain the ascites. She said while in OR she will get pathology to look at samples before ending surgery so we will know if we have cancer cells in samples.

obviously I'm going with option 2.  She said she has never had anyone that has taken so long to diagnose.  This will be the 4th attempt at biopsy.  Surgery will be in April 11th, after this we should have an idea of what's next.  Chemo if we can confirm the type and surgery if she still can't determine the cancer.  My appt with Cancer agency was bumped till April 14th from the 7th I guess cause we don't have anything confirmed yet.

thanks for being here and supporting me thru this.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Thank you for the support 

Hi @Meinvan. I'm so glad you finally have some clarity although I honestly hate to welcome you to the club. I can say however that the Teal Sisters here are amazing for support, advice and strength. I can't imagine 9L of liquid! Glad they could reduce that significantly. If you have the most common OV cancer it is likely High Grade Serous however they will give you all that information today at your appointment and should hopefully be able to tell you stage as well. I'm thrilled they got you in for today. The waiting is the worst part. Having a plan is so helpful and I'm sure you will have a path forward after your meeting today. I hope your post procedure recovery is improving each day. Please keep us posted on the next steps in your journey. Sending you positive thoughts.

Morning ladies!  Well finally yesterday went and had my laparoscopy done, dr. Was able to remove 9 litres of ascites fluid off of me.  And was finally able to get the positive pathology we have been looking for after the 4th biopsy, so she was able to confirm the ovarian cancer, told my hubby it was the most common type to have but he didn't know any more then that.  After that finding she was able to speak with the cancer clinic where I will be going and they rescheduled my appt for initial consult Tuesday instead of after the Easter weekend, so moving forward finally!  I'm guessing an ivad will be next?  Home recovering now, a little painful to move and bend still today hoping that gets better by tomorrow,  peeing burns a little hoping that will be gone soon too.  Dr gave me 2 weeks on apixaban as well to prevent dvt's due to the high platelet counts.  Now onto Tuesday and next steps for starting chemo!  I'll keep you posted.  Thanks for being here and reading my journey.

💗

"Not statistics". My cousin was diagnosed with stage 4 HGSC 9 years ago.  After chemo and surgery she was part of a trial for Olaparib and has now been cancer free for 8 years!

@lbarr72 I love your comment that we are, "...obviously not statistics, as many sisters have proved them wrong!". You are absolutely correct considering the many survivors and warriors in this forum. Thank you for the reminder. My son's fiancee is a PhD student in molecular science and her field of study is Ovarian Cancer. She likes to remind me that the online statistics are not to be taken as the gospel. They are often comprised of information on a more 'global' basis and can be very misleading. I prefer instead to read the amazing stories of survival and endurance from our Teal Sisters. That is where the truth exists.

@Meinvan I can't believe the journey you have been through. I am thankful you now have a plan forward however can only imagine how frustrating all of this has been. April 11th will feel like an eternity away and then it will be fast approaching and upon you. Stay tough and strong. You've managed this so far. You've got this!!!

Change of plans yet again.  I did my MRI yesterday, This morning the gene oncologist called to tell me that my uterus is fine just fibroids, that cancer is still pointing to ovarian with peritoneal deposits, but of course without a positive biopsy the oncologist will not start chemo until we have an official diagnosis, stage,grade etc…So she gave us 2 options for next steps: 1) do IR guided biopsy again and hope to get ovarian cells. Or 2) go back to OR for a laparotomy to look around, do more biopsy's and drain the ascites. She said while in OR she will get pathology to look at samples before ending surgery so we will know if we have cancer cells in samples.

obviously I'm going with option 2.  She said she has never had anyone that has taken so long to diagnose.  This will be the 4th attempt at biopsy.  Surgery will be in April 11th, after this we should have an idea of what's next.  Chemo if we can confirm the type and surgery if she still can't determine the cancer.  My appt with Cancer agency was bumped till April 14th from the 7th I guess cause we don't have anything confirmed yet.

thanks for being here and supporting me thru this.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Here's the update:  met yesterday with the oncologist going to look at doing 3 to 4 rounds of chemo every three weeks and then we will rescan my abdomen to see if the tumour shrinking and then she will decide if we're gonna continue with chemo for a bit longer or if we're gonna go to surgery at that point and then more chemo obviously afterwards. I had my lab work today. Haemoglobin is still like 82 so I'll probably get a transfusion tomorrow. She wants my haemoglobin over 90. We also sent off for genetic testing so that they can monitor things in the future if there's anything that comes up. @ Always learning you were corrected as a high grade serous cancer, with lots of peritoneal deposits apparently. she said that when they did the lap on Friday, it looked like it was my left ovary where it started, but also said my right was looking abnormal. Going to be starting chemo tomorrow.  Hubby has a bit of a cold this week so I hope he doesn't give it to me. I feel like I'm fighting a little bit of something in my throat.  Anyways hopefully I don't wake up sick tomorrow and I can start the chemo and it goes well. Not gonna lie I'm scared about starting chemo, but I don't seem to have any other choice to deal with this.

Thank you for the support 

Hi @Meinvan. I'm so glad you finally have some clarity although I honestly hate to welcome you to the club. I can say however that the Teal Sisters here are amazing for support, advice and strength. I can't imagine 9L of liquid! Glad they could reduce that significantly. If you have the most common OV cancer it is likely High Grade Serous however they will give you all that information today at your appointment and should hopefully be able to tell you stage as well. I'm thrilled they got you in for today. The waiting is the worst part. Having a plan is so helpful and I'm sure you will have a path forward after your meeting today. I hope your post procedure recovery is improving each day. Please keep us posted on the next steps in your journey. Sending you positive thoughts.

Morning ladies!  Well finally yesterday went and had my laparoscopy done, dr. Was able to remove 9 litres of ascites fluid off of me.  And was finally able to get the positive pathology we have been looking for after the 4th biopsy, so she was able to confirm the ovarian cancer, told my hubby it was the most common type to have but he didn't know any more then that.  After that finding she was able to speak with the cancer clinic where I will be going and they rescheduled my appt for initial consult Tuesday instead of after the Easter weekend, so moving forward finally!  I'm guessing an ivad will be next?  Home recovering now, a little painful to move and bend still today hoping that gets better by tomorrow,  peeing burns a little hoping that will be gone soon too.  Dr gave me 2 weeks on apixaban as well to prevent dvt's due to the high platelet counts.  Now onto Tuesday and next steps for starting chemo!  I'll keep you posted.  Thanks for being here and reading my journey.

💗

"Not statistics". My cousin was diagnosed with stage 4 HGSC 9 years ago.  After chemo and surgery she was part of a trial for Olaparib and has now been cancer free for 8 years!

@lbarr72 I love your comment that we are, "...obviously not statistics, as many sisters have proved them wrong!". You are absolutely correct considering the many survivors and warriors in this forum. Thank you for the reminder. My son's fiancee is a PhD student in molecular science and her field of study is Ovarian Cancer. She likes to remind me that the online statistics are not to be taken as the gospel. They are often comprised of information on a more 'global' basis and can be very misleading. I prefer instead to read the amazing stories of survival and endurance from our Teal Sisters. That is where the truth exists.

@Meinvan I can't believe the journey you have been through. I am thankful you now have a plan forward however can only imagine how frustrating all of this has been. April 11th will feel like an eternity away and then it will be fast approaching and upon you. Stay tough and strong. You've managed this so far. You've got this!!!

Change of plans yet again.  I did my MRI yesterday, This morning the gene oncologist called to tell me that my uterus is fine just fibroids, that cancer is still pointing to ovarian with peritoneal deposits, but of course without a positive biopsy the oncologist will not start chemo until we have an official diagnosis, stage,grade etc…So she gave us 2 options for next steps: 1) do IR guided biopsy again and hope to get ovarian cells. Or 2) go back to OR for a laparotomy to look around, do more biopsy's and drain the ascites. She said while in OR she will get pathology to look at samples before ending surgery so we will know if we have cancer cells in samples.

obviously I'm going with option 2.  She said she has never had anyone that has taken so long to diagnose.  This will be the 4th attempt at biopsy.  Surgery will be in April 11th, after this we should have an idea of what's next.  Chemo if we can confirm the type and surgery if she still can't determine the cancer.  My appt with Cancer agency was bumped till April 14th from the 7th I guess cause we don't have anything confirmed yet.

thanks for being here and supporting me thru this.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.

Here's the update:  met yesterday with the oncologist going to look at doing 3 to 4 rounds of chemo every three weeks and then we will rescan my abdomen to see if the tumour shrinking and then she will decide if we're gonna continue with chemo for a bit longer or if we're gonna go to surgery at that point and then more chemo obviously afterwards. I had my lab work today. Haemoglobin is still like 82 so I'll probably get a transfusion tomorrow. She wants my haemoglobin over 90. We also sent off for genetic testing so that they can monitor things in the future if there's anything that comes up. @ Always learning you were corrected as a high grade serous cancer, with lots of peritoneal deposits apparently. she said that when they did the lap on Friday, it looked like it was my left ovary where it started, but also said my right was looking abnormal. Going to be starting chemo tomorrow.  Hubby has a bit of a cold this week so I hope he doesn't give it to me. I feel like I'm fighting a little bit of something in my throat.  Anyways hopefully I don't wake up sick tomorrow and I can start the chemo and it goes well. Not gonna lie I'm scared about starting chemo, but I don't seem to have any other choice to deal with this.

Thank you for the support 

Hi @Meinvan. I'm so glad you finally have some clarity although I honestly hate to welcome you to the club. I can say however that the Teal Sisters here are amazing for support, advice and strength. I can't imagine 9L of liquid! Glad they could reduce that significantly. If you have the most common OV cancer it is likely High Grade Serous however they will give you all that information today at your appointment and should hopefully be able to tell you stage as well. I'm thrilled they got you in for today. The waiting is the worst part. Having a plan is so helpful and I'm sure you will have a path forward after your meeting today. I hope your post procedure recovery is improving each day. Please keep us posted on the next steps in your journey. Sending you positive thoughts.

Morning ladies!  Well finally yesterday went and had my laparoscopy done, dr. Was able to remove 9 litres of ascites fluid off of me.  And was finally able to get the positive pathology we have been looking for after the 4th biopsy, so she was able to confirm the ovarian cancer, told my hubby it was the most common type to have but he didn't know any more then that.  After that finding she was able to speak with the cancer clinic where I will be going and they rescheduled my appt for initial consult Tuesday instead of after the Easter weekend, so moving forward finally!  I'm guessing an ivad will be next?  Home recovering now, a little painful to move and bend still today hoping that gets better by tomorrow,  peeing burns a little hoping that will be gone soon too.  Dr gave me 2 weeks on apixaban as well to prevent dvt's due to the high platelet counts.  Now onto Tuesday and next steps for starting chemo!  I'll keep you posted.  Thanks for being here and reading my journey.

💗

"Not statistics". My cousin was diagnosed with stage 4 HGSC 9 years ago.  After chemo and surgery she was part of a trial for Olaparib and has now been cancer free for 8 years!

@lbarr72 I love your comment that we are, "...obviously not statistics, as many sisters have proved them wrong!". You are absolutely correct considering the many survivors and warriors in this forum. Thank you for the reminder. My son's fiancee is a PhD student in molecular science and her field of study is Ovarian Cancer. She likes to remind me that the online statistics are not to be taken as the gospel. They are often comprised of information on a more 'global' basis and can be very misleading. I prefer instead to read the amazing stories of survival and endurance from our Teal Sisters. That is where the truth exists.

@Meinvan I can't believe the journey you have been through. I am thankful you now have a plan forward however can only imagine how frustrating all of this has been. April 11th will feel like an eternity away and then it will be fast approaching and upon you. Stay tough and strong. You've managed this so far. You've got this!!!

Change of plans yet again.  I did my MRI yesterday, This morning the gene oncologist called to tell me that my uterus is fine just fibroids, that cancer is still pointing to ovarian with peritoneal deposits, but of course without a positive biopsy the oncologist will not start chemo until we have an official diagnosis, stage,grade etc…So she gave us 2 options for next steps: 1) do IR guided biopsy again and hope to get ovarian cells. Or 2) go back to OR for a laparotomy to look around, do more biopsy's and drain the ascites. She said while in OR she will get pathology to look at samples before ending surgery so we will know if we have cancer cells in samples.

obviously I'm going with option 2.  She said she has never had anyone that has taken so long to diagnose.  This will be the 4th attempt at biopsy.  Surgery will be in April 11th, after this we should have an idea of what's next.  Chemo if we can confirm the type and surgery if she still can't determine the cancer.  My appt with Cancer agency was bumped till April 14th from the 7th I guess cause we don't have anything confirmed yet.

thanks for being here and supporting me thru this.

@Meinvan  Welcome to the group. April 7th is approaching fast and hopefully any anxiety as well.  Sounds like you have some plans on the go depending on findings.  Going straight to surgery may not be a bad thing and may be the answer you are looking for.  Hoping you get answers at your next appt as you wait and are writing your questiions down for them. Hoping that MRI gets booked and done sooner rather than later.  Sounds like you are ready to go no matter what the outcome. That is a good attitude to have. We are all here for you as you wait.  Perhaps you want to join our Teal Thursday chats to ease your mind.  I will be doing a check in to see where everyone is at and how they are doing.  It would be lovely to have you join us.  Look forward to your updates.  Take care of you!

Well busy past few days here.  Thursday did the Paracentesis but the radiologist only took 50cc of fluid for diagnostic, so no relief from ascites and edema. Monday morning went for An endometrial biopsy with sedation, much more comfortable then doing that in the office.  Yesterday oncologist called to say that peritoneal fluid was negative and endometrial biopsy was negative so we still don't have the confirmation of the ovarian cancer yet or any type for that matter to start chemo.  She decided to do an mri now and if we still can't find it with the mri , she suggested we may just go straight to surgery to remove the tumor first.  So now I wait again to hear about the mri date.  Next appt with cancer agency is April 7, so hopefully mri is done before then so we can get our plan in place and get the show on the road.

Hi Meinvan,

Im sorry you had to join us here, but Im glad you found this group.

I dont understand what is taking so long in your case and others. I was seen in the ER in small town Ont last May. Over the next 2 weeks I had ultrasound, CT, 2x MRI and met with the surgeon. Surgery was a month from the ER visit and chemo started 3 weeks later. Your symptoms are even more indicative than mine were. 

I hope your assessment has given you a clear path forward and relieved some anxiety.

Hi,

I just thought I would introduce myself here, so here it goes.  I am a 52 yr old mom (53 tomorrow) to an 18 yr old with ASD, he is my world and I am his.  I have been a nurse for 31 yrs most of my time working in critical care.  I live in BC. As of Feb 17th, I am now an ovarian cancer fighter.

Last Feb 2024 I went to my GP with new symptoms of small spotting and small urine incontinence.  Thinking it was probably perimenopause given my age no investigations were done at that point.  Gradually, over the past year the incontinence became worse, started having episodes days a month of extreme fatigue, nausea, loss of appetite and pelvic pains around ovulation time but I continued to think menopause would happen at some point and everyone's body reacts differently and this was how mine was reacting to the changes.  Well, fast forward to this past January when I got back to see my GP where we discussed my ongoing symptoms and weight loss. Did a pelvic exam and felt a large mass, hoping it was just a fibroid I was sent for lab work and an ultrasound.  The ultrasound wouldn't be booked for a month.  I got my lab work done and I was severely anemic, started iron pills, and my CA125 was 675.  Mid February, i got my first CTabd/pelvis which showed the large mass 15cmx 12cm,15cm sitting above my uterus.  There was also peritoneal malignancy seen, with large ascites. Since then, I had a ct chest to rule out lung Mets, luckily just some nodules seen but didn't look cancerous at this time.  I went for a biopsy of the mass but it didn't show any ovarian cell's just uterine and endometrial benign cells,so really undiagnostic. Currently, i am up 10lbs in fluid from the ascites and have lots of swelling/edema to my lower body to my feet.  Most of my discomfort comes from the swelling that there seems to be no relief from. Now, i am waiting for my first visit with the cancer agency to be assessed on March 20th.
Well, thank you for being here as i start this journey.  Any tips or tricks are welcome.  Trying to stay positive for myself, my healing and for my family. 
Thanks for reading.