@WestWind @Ellen @LeslieA ... I've been following this thread and shaking my head at the same time when it comes to the negativity some of you have experienced. I cannot believe that some individuals in the medical profession, whether RN's or doctors, don't stop to understand the power of their words. It just boggles my mind. While I don't want anyone to lead me down false paths or lie to me, I also want balance when someone is speaking to me about my medical situation. So, I'm so sorry that you have experienced the more negative side of people's words and actions.
As @Ellen said, you never know when it truly is your time. So, as the saying goes..."wear the new shoes you bought and eat that slice of cake". I would suggest that if you need a new bed, then you decide if you want to buy it @WestWind. This is your life and your decisions are what matter. If it helps with your mental and physical health, how can that be a bad thing!!
@Ellen you asked how cancer has been a positive thing. An interesting question. Not to be trite but it did bring me to all of you...a group of strong supportive warriors. As well, I have learned how strong I am, physically and mentally. It has also shown me who my 'true' friends are and helped me shed myself of those that live too much in a negative space. It also led me to volunteering. I had been trying to figure out where to lend some of my "retired" time. My diagnosis introduced me to OCC, then OVdialogue as a Community Champion and now as the Moderator. I found purpose within my diagnosis. I hope to be able to engage with the forum for many, many, many, many (to infinity) years to come 💙
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