Original Message:
Sent: 7/30/2025 3:38:00 PM
From: lbarr72
Subject: RE: The Gift of Life and The Circle of Life
In the trend of sharing excellent overviews of this world we find ourselves in, I found that this reported voice, struck me as exactly how I feel. From Princess Kate in the UK:
"You put on a brave face during treatment, but the real struggle begins after" She was speaking about her experience with chemotherapy ( and large abdominal surgery. Her diagnosis has never been revealed, but her treatments certainly seem to follow our experiences )
"Once the treatments stop, the world expects you to bounce back. To smile. To go back to "normal". But the truth is that "normal" no longer exists. What follows is a deep emotional rollercoaster. The medical team is no longer by your side every day. The adrenaline of survival fades.
The exhaustion lingers. And you are left navigating a new version of yourself - physically, emotionally, mentally.
"It's a much harder process than I ever imagined."
This isn't just a story of resilience. It's a reminder: healing takes time. Not just the body, but the soul.
So, if you are in the space after the storm. Don't rush the calm.
Let it come slowly, gently - with grace.
And above all, don't expect to be who you were before.
You're becoming someone even stronger.
This is a woman who faces intense scrutiny and expectations to show up, look great, smile and support everyone else.
Any of you who have young children, are in a tougher balancing act than I face at 73, with grown children.
My heart goes out to all of you.
Her reflections, however, describe where I am right now. Everyone reflects that I " look great" and are so glad it's over. Meanwhile I navigate this new "normal" with it's challenges, changes and fears. Wouldn't it be lovely to turn back the clock to when cancer was something you never thought would happen to you. That healthy, active, busy woman you used to be.
Onward, my wonderful Warriors.....
Original Message:
Sent: 7/29/2025 9:25:00 AM
From: Alwayslearning
Subject: RE: The Gift of Life and The Circle of Life
Hello @natloy3460 and welcome to OVdialogue. It sounds like you've had the chance to interact and connect with other Teal Sisters along your journey which is fantastic. The warriors here in OVD are an incredible source of inspiration, strength, encouragement, hope and laughter. Thank you for sharing your books and your journey. This group is one of the best sharing groups I've ever had the pleasure of being engaged with, even if it was a cancer diagnosis that brought me to them. I look forward to reading about your journey and gaining yet more inspiration and learning from another warrior in our midst. Also congratulations on your two-year survivorversary (sorry just made that up). A definite cause for celebration!
Thank you again for sharing.
#Introductions #Supportandencouragement #
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Original Message:
Sent: 07-28-2025 14:54
From: natloy3460
Subject: The Gift of Life and The Circle of Life
Hi OV Cummunity.
This is my first post and wanted to share a book I wrote in the fall of 2024 about my healing journey since my OV diagnosis. I also wrote a Part 2 sequel which was prompted by celebrating my 2-year anniversary of being a survivor .
I am very grateful to Ovarian Cancer Canada, the Teal Tea sessions, and for finding out about the Wellspring programs. I had participated in a Journalling session and was reminded about how much I loved to write which was the trigger to consider writing about my own journey. If I could touch at least one person to provide more hope, acceptance and live life to the fullest each and every day as if it's your last, then I've done my part.
I also participate in the Wellspring Music Therapy program and was so fortunate to meet some participants 'in person' too. More about this in Part 2.
I am so privileged to be part of the various OV Communities which provide me so much inspiration and hope for a better future for women to be diagnosed earlier and also encouraged by the research and advancement in treatments. Finally ovarian cancer is getting more attention, so long overdue.
I look forward to reading or hearing more of everyone's journey. Our connection to each other is magical in being able to be our true selves becoming one with all.
Sending love and hugs,
Natalia