Florence,
It would have been nice to see you, but I understand that sometimes these things don't work out. I am interested in the presentation you saw about the "histology second opinion", which to me leads to the idea of more input and further, more individualized care, based on our unique circumstances. The gold standard of care needs tweaks, in my opinion, to fit how cancer behaves in our bodies, as we are often quite different.
I met a couple of patient partners who have surmounted recurrences and still enjoy some quality of life; travelling, going to these conferences, working with researchers and remaining active participants in their lives. It was hopeful for me.
And yes indeed, we are far more than a chart of symptoms & responses to treatment. I feel this very strongly. The conference theme emphasized the need for patient-centred care and I hope it develops everywhere in Canada.