Thanks Joan for your helpful ideas and kind support. I will add sugar-free gum to the list.
Original Message:
Sent: 04-02-2025 15:43
From: JoanEG
Subject: Introducing myself
HI@LeslieA jumping on to add my 2 cents! As you stated I was told to drink apple juice before and they also told me to take some sugar free gum for after surgery. The sugar free gum will help get things moving. Do take your socks, slippers, etc. as you stated you just never know how long your stay might be. They told me 3 days and it became 12, ugh! Strongwoman definitely hit on most of the things for when you get home. Wishing you an uncomplicated surgery and a speedy recovery!
Original Message:
Sent: 04-02-2025 13:46
From: LeslieA
Subject: Introducing myself
Thank you Claire, you have provided more useful ideas to add to my list. The zippered bag with a carabiner is great and something I would never have thought about. Also a pillow case! I didn't realize we could bring a few comforts from home. I will bring warm socks, slippers and a comfortable nightie too. Those hospital gowns are a little undignified and rather voluminous. I joked to a nurse about those awful, giant paper foot covers we put on before surgery and flop around in. One-size-that-does-not-fit-all.
The pre-surgery drink is also something I didn't know about. I will be speaking to a pharmacy tech today and will ask about this. For the small surgeries (stent), I drank some apple juice beforehand.
I am told that I should be discharged in 3 days, but of course one never knows about complications. I hope all goes well. And there are oodles of spring flowers emerging these days.
Thank you again for your thoughts and suggestions. Hugs to you and everyone here.
Original Message:
Sent: 04-02-2025 07:48
From: mcb
Subject: Introducing myself
Hello @LeslieA,
Its just 6 days until your surgery and I am thinking of you. You are in the right place to talk about that emotional rollercoaster. The beginning of this journey is such a whirlwind of appointments, tests and information and you have to navigate all of it while in a state of shock. You have already gone through 5 cycles of chemo which just shows how tough you are. You will get through the surgery and next rounds of chem too, but we appreciate it wont be easy. Some things I found helpful for the hospital stay:
- they may recommend a pre surgery drink (Ensure makes one) It was only available at the hospital pharmacy. But you might find a sample of a clear carb loading beverage at The Running Room or Popeyes (not the chicken place). They contain maltodextrin which is broken down slower than glucose. But clear juice will do if thats what you can find.
-a zippered bag that you can attach to your bed with a carabiner. It can hold your phone, chap stick, ear buds or ear plugs. The nurses are great, but overworked. They kept moving my table out of reach so the bag was very handy. They often forget a request as they are overwhelmed, just ask again they wont mind. An insulated, closed bottle. A pillow case, the sheets are quite rough. Dont bring "stuff to do" until you know whether you will feel up to reading etc. I had a tiny room and there was no where to put anything.
I hope you have some wonderful spring flowers to encourage you to get outside for some short walks. Best of luck.
Claire
Original Message:
Sent: 03-26-2025 13:12
From: LeslieA
Subject: Introducing myself
Hello Everyone,
First of all, I am very appreciative of how supportive everyone is to each other in this group. We all need a safe place to express ourselves openly but also feel encouraged. This looks like the right place for me.
I was officially diagnosed with stage 3 ovarian cancer in November 2024. My symptoms were vague and intermittent over the summer, such as occasional constipation and bloating. By October 2024, I experienced a lot of heartburn, belching, and pain up both sides of my abdomen and finally went to my GP, thinking it was something intestinal and/or just part of aging. (I am 68 years old). To my utter shock, she suspected OC and sent me for a CT scan right away, confirming my worst fears. There was a 14 x 6 cm tumour on my right ovary, no doubt pushing on my other organs, inhibiting my ability to eat full meals and causing pain. Also, evidence of some spread in my omentum, but as far as I know, no other spread. I lost 12 pounds over 2 months.
It was a long November waiting for my appointment with the oncologist in Victoria, who confirmed my diagnosis and treatment plan. Thereafter, I received 5 chemo infusions in the standard 3-week intervals and I felt so much better. After cycle 4, I had another scan and the tumour had retreated to less than 1/2 (6 cm x .5 cm) and hopefully cycle 5 kicked it down even more. No signs of cancer in the omentum at this point. Two of my cancer markers returned to normal levels and the CA 125 was down to 101 (previously 2400). I am now awaiting the surgical stage: full hysterectomy and debulking on April 7. I admit to feel both grateful and frightened, as I have never had any major surgery in my life.
After surgery, the plan is 3 more chemo sessions. Ugh. This cancer experience has been intense for me emotionally, mentally and physically, which I am sure everyone understands. There are days when I feel steady and optimistic, but also days when I feel very sad and discouraged. It comes and goes like ocean waves. I try to allow all the "feels" as it seems to help. I draw a lot and have put these emotions into art, which helps to externalize and let them go. Even still, it has been a rough go.
I was in good health before cancer and I hope this will help me recover well from the surgery. I don't know what to expect and perhaps it is all very individual.
Warmest wishes to you all!