My experience has been much like yours, MitchOT. I've had 3 bouts of chemo since 2019, when I was first diagnosed. Since then I've had regular 3-month checkups, without bloodwork or scans. My gyne oncologist sometimes does internal exams and sometimes she doesn't. I asked about it and she seems to want me to monitor for symptoms, which for both recurrences I reported to her before they were confirmed.
I have noticed that I lose weight with cancer, so I've decided to keep an eye on that and, if I start losing weight, to ask my GP for a CA125 blood test, because my results rise with a tumour.
Good luck!
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